Just Married...added after all the guests left and before the tear down. The flowers are my bouquet from the wedding.
Francois and I were married on Saturday, August 6th, 2011. I used a graphic planning tool to help us see the big picture including all the events from start to finish. Each week over a period of 5 months we checked off items on the list as we got closer to our wedding day. The red pen was a valued item in our house!
Tonight we ensured that all boxed were checked, added a rainbow to symbolize our first dance “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” and filled in the corner for ‘Just Married’. The graphic has been a unifying symbol for staying on track and working together. We know the journey will continue off the page 🙂
Our full wedding graphic August 10, 2011.
I decided to redo my first attempt at a graphic to help plan out my wedding for this summer. I have many sub-events within one event that spans a few months and different geographies. My main purpose is to have something for myself in large format to scan and keep me focused. Drawing it out created a calmness and seeing it on one page makes the task less daunting.
Some things I was thinking about included:
– Lists (what is a nice way to write a lot of lists?)
– Colour (too many, too little?)
It is a great improvement from my first draft as its much more ‘use-able’. I still think that each event needs to stand out more. I am contemplating adding chalk or shading to each event title or trying to encircle each event. Do you have any ideas or advice?
2nd draft of my wedding planning wall. Click the photo to enlarge it for better viewing.
Anyone who has organized a wedding likely knows that it can come with its fair share of stress. As someone who often plans engaging events for others, the pressure is on for my own wedding! I have found two tools that are helping me organize over the next 5 months.
1. An online website. www.weddingwindow.com has become a saviour. I now have a website to share my information with guests as well as guest list forms, E-vite options and a budget tracker to name a few of the handy tools. This online forum is fun to use and helpful!
2. An offline visual.
I am just starting but this is the outline for key events!
After thinking about all the things I need to do and plan in my head, writing lists in different locations and seeing words and more words…I finally decided to map out my wedding plans visually. This has helped me see the ‘big picture’ (literally) and keep me focused. My spacing needs work and I will likely re-do it before it gets more detailed. However, for a start, this has calmed me and I am thankful to my visual mentors for their ongoing inspiration to make the invisible visible.
I will keep you posted!
Dave Snowden’s most recent video provides a quick brief in understanding the Cynefin framework he developed.
Some key points to note:
- Cynefin framework – data proceeds the framework rather than the other way around
- The framework helps one identify different systems – ideally you use the appropriate method to deal with different situations
- Complexity domain involves: probe, sense, respond. This results in emergent practice rather than something predefined.
- Ideally, most situations are dealt within complex or complicated methods. This means lots of people, lots of diversity and is noted as a pretty good strategy.
Snowden remarks that bureaucrats tend to work in the simple box, academics/researchers work in the complicated and politicians generally in complexity. This is instructive to keep in mind when working with groups of people that come from these different sectors. From my own work, I know its not easy convincing people to work within the complex domain. Often this requires more facilitation, monitoring and adaptive capacity than the other domains.
I recommend this as a good introduction to Snowden’s Cynefin Framework for those starting down the complex path.